Saying no is the new sexy!

 “Saying no can be the ultimate self-care.” –Claudia Black

               People ranging from Steve Jobs to Paulo Coelho enlightened us with the usefulness of saying no. Like how saying no can save us from some very awkward situations, save our energy, time and money (and of course brains). But that time they didn’t realize that they are guiding Gen Y with an immensely useful dating tip. Yes, your guess is right.

Dating tip #1- Say ‘No’, It is the new sexy!

                 Gone are the days when agreeing with your partner in everything was considered as proper dating etiquette and when best partner of the world was used to be a person who would say yes on each and every thing. Let it be going out for a movie, buying a new pet or any petty/huge issue.

                                                           But, Aah! Human mind and it’s complexities. Our generation doesn’t like simple things. A thing should be complex and complicated to keep us enchanted with it. So those people out there who are agreeing with their partners on each and every thing, kindly stop. You are not doing any good to your relationship. Soon your partners will get bored with the monotonous ‘yes’. Stop repelling them. Learn saying no, ASAP.

                                                                               Saying no gives you a mystic aura that attracts your partner and makes them think that you have some covert aspects of your personality, they are not aware of and so they have to overt them. Soon they will get totally busy in overting those layers and won’t even realize that they are trapped in them. They won’t get a chance to get bored. So start saying no frequently. Like, no I’m not available for outing this time. Oh God no! I don’t like your shirt a bit. And keep saying stuff like, ‘baby! You are so good but the problem is with me, I think I’m not ready to take this relationship to the next step’. Saying things like these maintain your importance in the relationship.

                                                                  And when you become an expert in saying no, proceed to the next level. Now saying things like, ‘Oh! I don’t give a damn about that’ can come in handy. Trust me, it’s really attractive and soon you will become catnip of your partners. Just remember never to cross the line and maintain equilibrium.

                     

                   Now you may ask how to give them element of surprise at times? Well, just say ‘Yes’ for a change and your work is done!